7 Reasons Why You Should Feel Lucky You Have a Home

7 reasons why you should feel lucky you hav

7 reasons why you should feel lucky you have a home
When things are not going well for you, or the world is seemingly conspiring against you, it is easy to feel dismal. Underneath all of that negativity, you can lose sight of what is good about your life. If you spend too much time listening and reading and watching, there is less time for simply being, for appreciating. You most certainly do need to keep informed about the world, to stay connected and be part of a variety of communities, but no time away from all of this is unhealthy. Bad stuff happens to all of us. That is life. I have been hit recently with bad health and some tragic events in my personal life. But, you go on. You find the ways to seek joy, and you celebrate the fact that you are still here, which means opportunity and possibility. Do you feel lucky? It is easy to get bogged down by the difficulties of life that we all face and forget to be grateful for what you have. Despite my personal challenges, I feel lucky each and every day I wake up, and every night when I kiss my boys good night.

We are a funny animal, us human beings. Just like little birds we like to strut and flash our colourful tails. We feather our nests and bring back shiny objects just like a Bowerbird. No matter where you live, or how much you have or don’t have, a home is something that all of us need. Shelter is in fact one of the primary needs of all of us. The famous theory of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs proposed by Abraham Maslow in his 1943 paper “A Theory of Human Motivation” has shelter as one of the most basic needs of all human beings, usually being added as an important physiological need. Maslow later extended the concept to include our curiosity about life, and when you add in creativity, spontaneity and all the other levels of basic needs, you can easily see why our homes are so important to many of us, on a number of levels.
When you play in decorating and creating in your home, when you move beyond the basic needs of warmth, safety and shelter from the elements, and start to move into aesthetics, satisfaction, pleasure and art, it is lovely if you can do so with grace and dignity. Having respect for other people and other places and other generations, noticing our planet and our impact on her, makes all the difference. Decorating your home is not just slapping on a coat of paint. It is creating a place for family and friends to come together. It is ensuring your family can work together, to grow children into people who can make a difference in their lives. It is creating a place to rest from the pace of the outside world, to regenerate and come back out into the busy world. It is about enabling you to feel you belong somewhere, and that you matter.

Those who are homeless suffer more than you may ever imagine. To never be able to relax in that space you call home and constantly worry about the cold, the heat, the safety of any belongings you may own. Always worrying about your personal safety – these are things lots of us will never have to deal with. Yet many do. When you see children living out of a car, on a street corner, in the dirt – then you think again about how you choose to go about feathering your own lucky nest. I am not saying you should not do this, nor that those who are lucky to have a home should feel guilty, we should feel lucky. And so, you should try to do something for someone who is not so lucky.

Here are 7 reasons why you should feel lucky you have a home

  1. You have a roof over your head – whether that is rented, owned or anything in between, it is the place you wake up and go to sleep each night.
  2. You have somewhere to keep your belongings, to display your treasures, and play with design and decor. You can put your own personality and style into your home – even in a rental.
  3. Whether you live alone or with others, a home is a place you can spend time with and care for your loved ones. That might be family and friends, or your pet – having someone to love makes a house a home.
  4. You have a place in the world that belongs to you, even if you are renting or sharing a home, it is a spot that is yours right now. You don’t have to fight anyone else for the place you call home.
  5. You have the ability to do more in the world, because you are not spending every day finding somewhere safe to sleep.
  6. You can grow some of your own food, create an oasis and live a life that is more sustainable through the choices you make in living in your home every day.
  7. You have a haven. A place to retreat from the busy pace of everyday life and find solace.

7 reasons why you should feel lucky you have a homeUltimately, living a life that is gracious, one where you realise how lucky you are each day, makes you happier and more at peace. You should feel lucky you have a home, even if it is run down, not your favourite style right now, or seems a little cramped.  Think about these reasons next time you feel a little blah about your home. It will do wonders for your self esteem, your sense of belonging and your happiness, and be good for the world at the same time – and that is something we all need.
(updated from a post in 2016)


  1. Maureen Garratt on January 6, 2016 at 7:15 am

    I am extremely grateful I have a home I love. My happiness comes from a can of paint and some quirky ideas..

  2. Kaye Woods on January 6, 2016 at 7:30 am

    A House Is Not A Home:
    Within these walls, some cracked and peeling
    Familiar windows, doors and ceilings
    Carpet worn in many places
    Many hundreds of steps it traces
    Sunlight streaming quietly invades
    Over the years patches fade
    Slightly shabby, not shabby chic
    Lots of stuff at which to peek
    Well used and touched by time
    Where new and shiny intertwine
    A family’s history is contained
    As all the wear and tear remains
    A little rough around the edges
    Lots of clutter up on ledges
    Nothing precious, priceless or grand
    Being touched by many hands
    Wouldn’t grace any magazine pages
    No renovations done for ages
    Like sinking into a comfy chair
    Very relaxing to be there
    Many memories over the years
    Sometimes laughter, sometimes tears
    Shelter from storms, solid and stable
    Garden flowers on the table
    Losing some sparkle as time goes by
    But it’s still standing- and so am I!

  3. Kaye Woods on January 6, 2016 at 7:30 am

    Your house looks lovely!

  4. Maureen Garratt on January 6, 2016 at 7:45 am

    Kaye Woods thank youU0001f49c

  5. Maureen Garratt on January 6, 2016 at 8:05 am

    Thought you may like my window treatment. I collected scarves from op shops, also friends were happy to give me a scarf or two.

  6. Kerry June Byrne on January 6, 2016 at 8:33 am

    The colours look great

  7. Tanya van Reijsen on January 6, 2016 at 8:36 am

    Great reminder!
    We rent and being told that the landlord wants to sell the property just puts so much stress on us as parents….
    Packing and sorting and getting rid of excess might sound good and cleansing but it also means you are getting rid of a part of you ….

  8. Helene Wild on January 6, 2016 at 8:57 am

    Yes, an indoor bathroom, a window, a door that locks, and a sound roof. Very grateful for all of these. U0001f604

  9. Recycled Interiors on January 6, 2016 at 9:16 am

    that is perfect

  10. Recycled Interiors on January 6, 2016 at 9:17 am

    you are right that is such a stressful part of renting, especially with children, makes it very hard

  11. Kaye Woods on January 6, 2016 at 9:56 am

    I did my lampshade like that! Cheap, simple and easy!

  12. Maureen Garratt on January 6, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    Kaye Woods I have been collecting necklaces to do a lampshade, never thought of adding scarvesU0001f33a

  13. Thea Webb on January 6, 2016 at 3:02 pm

    Very grateful for my beautiful home

  14. Recycled Interiors on January 6, 2016 at 3:46 pm

    me too

  15. Stephenie Oxley on January 6, 2016 at 8:06 pm

    I struggle with ‘wanting’ a nice home and considering whether I actually ‘need’ a nice home. Like does a perfectly decorated home matter more than just having a home? Some people don’t have that luxury! Which is hard to even imagine really. I struggle with this Need/Want all the time.

  16. Theresa Dugmore on January 6, 2016 at 8:21 pm

    I love this poem….you can keep all your ‘show homes’…..my home is described exactly in that poem…and I love my four walls!

  17. Shell Griggoneski on January 6, 2016 at 8:53 pm

    Forever grateful to have a roof over my head. Especially thankful with this storm and flooding to be warm and dry.

  18. Bronwyn Emond on January 6, 2016 at 10:55 pm

    When you see how many people are displaced it’s heartbreaking. Especially those with young children. It certainly makes me feel very, very fortunate.

  19. Recycled Interiors on January 7, 2016 at 8:15 am

    I think it’s fine to have a nice home but it’s what we see as being nice that matters. There are ways to create your own beautiful home without having to spend lots or impact the planet. I think we all go through it!

  20. Recycled Interiors on January 7, 2016 at 8:15 am

    oh yes so terrible

  21. Recycled Interiors on January 7, 2016 at 8:15 am

    so true Bronwyn

  22. Julie Jackson on January 7, 2016 at 10:37 am

    I know the feeling, Tanya. I’ve been renting for 22 years as I’m unable to get a deposit together. Renting is so stressful.

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